jarabar soyayya
So shine ginshikin rayuwa kuma babu wanda zai iya rayuwa idan ba ita ba, duk mun fada cikin haka tarko Kuma suna kiransa da haka ne saboda duk wanda ya kamu da son rai ya soke tunaninsa kuma ya yi tunani da zuciyarsa kawai, kuma motsin rai ne kawai ke da alhakin duk wani hukunci da ya yanke a tsawon lokacin dangantakarsa, don haka hakan ya tilasta masa yanke hukunci ba daidai ba. gaba daya ya warware hankalinsa ya fara yin abubuwan da bai taba tunanin zai yi ba sai alakar ta fara kara karfi har ya kai matakin jaraba, domin ya saba da yawan shaye-shayen soyayya a kullum, kuma ba zai iya ba. dakatar da shi gaba daya, kuma ya kasance a cikin zuciyarsa cewa rayuwarsa ta hade da rayuwar wanda yake so, kuma ba wanda zai iya rayuwa ba tare da wani ba, kuma daga wannan yanayin ya kai matakin jaraba da jaraba. za mu nuna muku alamun cewa soyayya ta rikide ta zama jarabar da ta fi karfin kwaya.
Alamomi 10 idan kun yi su, ku sani cewa kun kai matakin jarabar masoyin ku
1- Raka sauran rabinka a ko'ina, da sanya ba za ka iya nisantarsa ba, da sakaci da abokanka da rayuwarka, da rashin tunanin aikinka, da yin watsi da duk wani abu da kake ganin muhimmanci kafin kulla alaka.
2-Rashin ikon ganin masoyinka, kamar yadda kake son saduwa da shi a kowane lokaci, koda a lokutan da bai dace ba, ba tare da sanya takamaiman ranaku ba.
3- Yi kokari sosai da kokarin samun mafi girman kudi don siyan kyaututtuka masu daraja da baiwa abokin zamanka da kokarin faranta masa ta hanyoyi daban-daban.
4- Idan har ka kai matakin bacin rai da bacin rai a wasu lokutan da ba za ka iya haduwa da masoyinka ba, to ka sani cewa ka kai matakin shaye-shaye domin jin dadi da jin dadi suna da tushe da yawa a rayuwar kowane mutum kuma ba ya dogara ga daya. mutum a cikin rayuwar ku.
5- Samuwar sha'awar rabuwa a cikin zuciyarka, wannan zai zama babban abin da zai haifar da firgici da tashin hankali a rayuwarka, don tsoron rabuwa a kowane lokaci, wannan ma jaraba ce.
6- Yarda da masoyinki akan duk abin da zai fada da barin ka'idojinku da dabi'unku da dabi'unku don musanya hakan, saboda ana daukar hakan a matsayin wata babbar alama ta kamu da son masoyinki.
7- Tsananin sha'awa da jarabar tunani wajen kokarin tabbatar da cewa sauran rabinku suna son ku kamar yadda kuke zato kuma baya yaudarar ku tare da bata miki rai bisa la'akari da ra'ayinsa ko maganganunsa zuwa gare ku.
8- Hasashen ku na cewa ba za ku iya zama tare ko daidaitawa da gaskiya ba idan mai son ku ya bar ku a kowane lokaci kuma duniya a gare ku kawai tana ganin wanda kuke so a cikinta.
9- Jin dadin rayuwarka ba tare da wanda kake so ba, kuma zaka kyamaci kanka idan masoyinka yana nesa da kai.
10-Koyaushe kiyi qoqari wajen tayar da husuma a cikin zance, nuna cewa kina da qarfi a gaban wanda kike so, ki shiga cikin matsala domin jan hankalin wanda kike so.
